A few weeks ago, I asked the fellas on Instagram to give some relationship advice to the women.

It was quite revealing

I got over 200 comments 

Here's some of what they had to say:

@mr_toritsemasan: Respect a man but don't be a fool in the process. What you won't accept when you marry him, don't tolerate it when dating him.

@eseoghene_andreIf he doesn't give you an inkling or talks about a future with you. He most likely doesn't want one with you, don't force it

@sheunfaniyi.....understand that every single man will bring you up or down to the level of their mindset.

@eseoghene_andre  We secretly love being pampered but won't tell you because we've been programmed to think that's a sign of weakness. Don't be too pushy but show him that he doesn't have to be Superman always

@olisadgens Dear Lady, please bring something to the table, a beautiful face, a beautiful shape, a beautiful body and sex won't cut it. Also, don't let them deceive you, you should know how to cook good...

Yesterday, social media was agog with the news of Banky W's engagement to Adesua Etomi.

And while I couldn't be happier for the couple, I couldn't help but notice an interesting statement that Banky made.

He said that his babe "friend zoned" him for over 18 months!

Why do ladies friend zone fellas? 

The friendzone is a prison you built with your own hands to keep guys out and keep you in

Please epp me answer this question

Listen sweetheart, the man you might marry is probably disguised in the garb of your "best friend", "brother" or "your homie"

Be there looking for the man who gets your heart fluttering and your pulse racing, you don't know that you're looking for a guy who'll give you a heart attack.

I've said, choose COMPATIBILITY over CHEMISTRY.

Compatibility is THE CAR and chemistry is the NEW CAR SMELL.

No one buys a car for how it smells, but for it's ability to get you to your destination  

While the future Mrs W was friend zoning our guy, she didn't know HE WAS...

This Valentine's Day,

Don't be a victim of #bodycount

He's probably planned out his men-you for today...

Tolu's breakfast.
Halima's lunch
You just might be dinner...
Or the appetizer.

So hey, do something different this Valentine's day.

1. Realize that being alone today doesn't make you lonely ... Besides, were you sad last week? #nopressuretho

2. Don't be a desperate single chic... We smell it from a mile away, and he'll prey on you

3. Tell him you're keeping your legs closed until he's open to and has said I DO.

Will you lose a few fellas along the way?

Yup, but you're not an ATM ,where any Tom, Dick and (still expecting Harry weren't you) who has a 4 digit pin can access.

You're a vault.

Only the person with the correct authorization can get your valuables.

Besides, do you see queues at a vault?

That chic with plenty toasters just might be an ATM, dispensing generously Just saying. So hey, don't be on the menu, when you can own the damn restaurant.

So here's my Valentine's...