A few weeks ago, I asked the fellas on Instagram to give some relationship advice to the women.

It was quite revealing

I got over 200 comments 

Here's some of what they had to say:

@mr_toritsemasan: Respect a man but don't be a fool in the process. What you won't accept when you marry him, don't tolerate it when dating him.

@eseoghene_andreIf he doesn't give you an inkling or talks about a future with you. He most likely doesn't want one with you, don't force it

@sheunfaniyi.....understand that every single man will bring you up or down to the level of their mindset.

@eseoghene_andre  We secretly love being pampered but won't tell you because we've been programmed to think that's a sign of weakness. Don't be too pushy but show him that he doesn't have to be Superman always

@olisadgens Dear Lady, please bring something to the table, a beautiful face, a beautiful shape, a beautiful body and sex won't cut it. Also, don't let them deceive you, you should know how to cook good...